Town Of Ipswich, Ipswich Police Department Share Warning Signs And Offer Resources During Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Wednesday October 19, 2022

IPSWICH — As part of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, recognized each October, the Town of Ipswich and Ipswich Police Department wish to share warning signs, resources and services for those who may be experiencing domestic violence.

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, more than 10 million people in the United States experience physical abuse by a partner every year. On average, one in three women and one in four men experience some form of physical violence committed by an intimate partner.

On a typical day, domestic abuse hotlines receive more than 19,000 calls for help.

Know the Signs

The Police Department wishes to share the following domestic violence warning signs and common characteristics of an abusive partner provided by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.

An abusive partner:

• Frequently denies or attempts to minimize the seriousness of violence and its impact on the victim
• Objectifies the victim, viewing that person as property or a sexual object.
• Has low self-esteem
• Blames their violence on stress, alcohol, or other external factors
• May act friendly and kind toward others outside of abusive events

Red flags include: 

• Extreme jealousy
• Possessive behavior
• Unpredictability
• Short, angry temper
• Cruelty to animals
• Verbal abuse
• Extremely controlling actions
• Rape and sexual assault
• Ignoring agreed upon birth control or sabotaging birth control
• Blaming the victim for abuse
• Preventing the victim from going to work or school
• Financial control
• Abuse of other people and/or animals
• Accusations that the victim is flirting with others
• Control of the victim’s apparel and actions
• Demeaning the victim, privately or publicly, as well as embarrassing that person in front of others
• Harassing the victim at his or her workplace

If requested by the survivor, Massachusetts law enforcement may recover all firearms and ammunition when responding to domestic violence calls. For more information about domestic violence-related firearms laws in Massachusetts, click here. 

Recognize When Children Need Help 

According to the Mayo Clinic, children may be the victim of physical, sexual, and emotional abuse, or neglect. Victims may feel ashamed or confused, and may be afraid to share their trauma — especially when their abuser is a parent, other relative, or friend. Signs a child is a victim of abuse include:

• Withdrawal from friends or usual activities
• Changes in behavior — such as aggression, anger, hostility or hyperactivity — or changes in school performance
• Depression, anxiety or unusual fears or a sudden loss of self-confidence
• An apparent lack of supervision
• Frequent absences from school
• Reluctance to leave school activities, as if he or she doesn’t want to go home
• Attempts at running away
• Rebellious or defiant behavior
• Self-harm or attempts at suicide
• Unexplained injuries, such as bruises, fractures or burns
• Injuries that don’t match the given explanation


In an emergency, call 911.

• For anonymous, confidential help available 24/7, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224. If you’re unable to speak safely, you can chat online, or text START to 88788. Additional crisis organizations and helplines can be found by clicking here.

• SafeLink is Massachusetts’ statewide 24/7 toll-free, multilingual hotline and a resource for anyone affected by domestic violence. SafeLink’s 24-hour hotline is available by calling 877-785-2020.

• HAWC (Healing Abuse Working for Change) provides services to victims of domestic violence in 23 North Shore communities. HWAC’s 24-hour support hotline may be reached at 1-800-547-1649.

• The Massachusetts Office of Victim Assistance has compiled a list of services by county, which is available online here, as well as lists of community-based resources and residential programs, which can be found here.

• Learn about safety plans here, and you can find an interactive guide to safety planning here. A safety plan is a personalized plan that includes ways to remain safe while in a relationship, planning to leave or after you leave. 

• The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline is dedicated to teens age 13-18 who may be experiencing dating abuse. For anonymous, confidential help available 24/7, call 1-866-331-9474, text LOVEIS to 22522 or chat online.

The Massachusetts Office of Victim Assistance has created SAFEPLAN brochures to connect victims and survivors with needed resources and prepare them in event of an emergency. The brochures are available in English, Spanish, Haitian Creole, and Portuguese.

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